TWO BASIC TACTICS: LASER LISTENING



1. Check for understanding.

2. Repeat or paraphrase the complaint to acknowledge that you heard it correctly.


1. Check for Understanding: Strategies
“Tell me more about ...”
“I want to make sure I’ve got this right. Would you repeat what happened one more time?”
“Help me to understand the situation so we can get this resolved quickly. Would you run that by me one more time?”
2. Repeat or Paraphrase Complaint: Lead-ins
“Let me make sure I heard you correctly.”
“Let me make sure I understand the problem correctly.”
“Let me see if I have all the facts about the situation.”
Then: “What you’re saying is ...” Never say ...
“You should’ve told me that in the first place.”
“You’ll have to ...”
“You must be mistaken.”
“Our salespeople messed up again.”
“This is the third time I’ve heard that complaint today.”
“I’ve never heard of that happening before.”
“It’s that darned computer again.”
“There is nothing I can do about it.”
“I don’t know.” [Period.]

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